The Inspiring Journey of Pastor Funmilola Abraham

Pastor Funmilola Abraham

My husband rejected my offer of a second wife despite 24 years of childlessness – Mother of twins

From 24 Years of Silence to a Chorus of Joy: The Inspiring Journey of Pastor Funmilola Abraham

For Pastor Funmilola Abraham, the road to motherhood was paved with heartache, unwavering faith, and a refusal to give up—even when hope wore thin. A Regional Overseer at the Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries, her testimony has touched lives across Nigeria and beyond, after she miraculously gave birth to twins in March 2025 at the age of 57—after 24 years of childlessness.

A Long Walk Through Disappointment

Pastor Funmilola got married in March 2001, and soon after, began experiencing fertility challenges. She underwent fibroid surgery in 2002 and was assured everything looked fine. But years passed, and conception remained elusive. She endured numerous procedures—at least ten flushing treatments—and in 2019, she turned to IVF. The first attempt brought joy: she became pregnant with triplets. But tragedy struck five months later when doctors found fatal heart complications in the unborn babies. They were lost in a painful medical evacuation.

Unlikely Unions: Nigerian Men Turn To Older White Brides For Love, Luxury, +

Unlikely Unions: The Rise of Young Nigerian Men Marrying Older Caucasian Women

In recent years, a striking and controversial trend has emerged across Nigeria: more and more young Nigerian men are marrying significantly older Caucasian women. While some of these unions are portrayed as heartwarming tales of love transcending boundaries, others spark fierce public debate about economic motives, migration aspirations, and shifting cultural norms.

Economic Realities and Marriage as Strategy

With youth unemployment high and economic hardship widespread, many young Nigerian men see marriage to foreign partners as more than just a romantic endeavor — it becomes a lifeline. These relationships often offer:

• Financial stability
• Access to citizenship or permanent residency abroad
• An escape from poverty and social immobility

DATE-LINE BLUES | EDITION ONE

 

SEGMENTS/CONTENT

WEDDING BELLS | GBEMISOLA AYODELE

COUNSELLING | AS A MAN IN A RELATIONSHIP HOW DO YOU MANAGE DECISION-MAKING WITH YOUR SPOUSE?

FLASH-BACK | FREQUENT BREAK-UPS IN TODAY'S LOVE RELATIONSHIPS

DATE-LINE BLUES | DEMO

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DATE-LINE BLUES: The First Idol

Submitted into Contest #188 Tom Bombadil writes about a character who’s attending a dinner thrown in their honor, but deeply embarrasses themself during their speech.... view prompt 

“Stop daydreaming Mr. Delano.”

In a moment, Mrs. Frampton, subjecting the tender wallflower of my affection to the grotesque spotlight of her own indifference, made cease the contemplation of my life’s own end, the one theme of my existence: Andrea Taylor.

It’s the Spring of 2005; I am a 7th grader at Fort Sumter Middle School, home of the Trojans. Andrea sits enthroned one row ahead, three columns to my right. I have mixed feelings about this, for while it affords me an almost uninterrupted view of her during second and fifth period, it also places her immediately adjacent to Kyle Schwimmer: another seventh grader, possessed of summit-less bicep peaks, which forces me to a fixed conclusion that he’s been injecting steroids intravenously since infancy, and whose hair, defying no less than two laws of thermodynamics, I am sure, manages to appear wet and shiny hours after we all have a just expectation that it should be dry. I despise Kyle Schwimmer.

Andrea herself, ah! Andrea, crowned with brown tresses, and bangs; layered alternately and Kevlar-like in Abercrombie and Hollister tank tops; floating on a cloud of all-white Etnies; and tastefully adorned in torn and acid-washed denim: if Helen, Esther, Cleopatra, Meghan Fox herself stood before me, they could, collectively, aspire to light but a Yankee-candle of affection before the blast furnace that is my love for Andrea Taylor.

Does owning property make you more attractive when dating?

As someone out on the dating frontline with a wishlist for your future partner, owning a home may not be something you immediately think to add amongst tall, funny, loyal and caring. However, research by CIA Landlord Insurance has shown that owning your own property does in fact make you more attractive!

The study revealed that men who own property are 57% more likely to get a match on Tinder than men who were not on the property ladder. And while women on Tinder receive an average of 60% more likes than men, women who own property further increased this percentage. Female property owners also receive 7% more matches than women who don’t own their own house.

Taking the stigma out of adult toy shops

When most people think of adult toy shops, the first thing that comes to mind is a seedy store filled with sleazy-looking people. However, this stereotype could not be further from the truth! Adult toy shops are becoming increasingly popular, offering various products for people of all ages and interests.

So if you're curious about adult toys, don't be afraid to check out your local shop!

What are adult toy shops, and what do they sell?

Adult toy shops are stores that sell products designed to enhance sexual pleasure. These can include vibrators, dildos, bondage equipment, and lubricants. Many adult toy shops also sell DVDs and other media featuring adult content.

Some stores may focus on a particular niche, such as BDSM or gay and lesbian customers, while others may carry a wide range of products. In recent years, the popularity of adult toy shops has grown substantially, as more people are becoming comfortable discussing and exploring their sexuality. This trend will likely continue as taboos surrounding sex continue to break down.

The Secret of a Happy Life: The Secret to a Successful Marriage

According to statistics, the divorce rate in the United States is climbing. On top of that, a recent study found that nearly half of all marriages now end in divorce. So do we need to be more cautious about who we marry? Should we think about not marrying at all?

To see marriage as permanent and something to be worked on is a healthy way to view it. It also means that you’ll want to choose wisely when finding someone you want to spend your life with. There are many benefits of marriage, but there are also some challenges you’ll need to prepare for. Let’s take a look at some advice regarding how to create a happy marriage:

Communicate

Communication is the foundation for any healthy relationship. It also is a predictor of divorce. Couples that have mastered the art of good communication are more likely to stay together. To make communication a priority, you’ll need to make time to talk with your partner. You can’t solve communication issues if you don’t talk about them.

Negotiating Money Issues as a Couple

Money Matters

There are a few ways that a couple can negotiate their financial endeavors peacefully. Money is often a sensitive subject and it should be handled with care. Rather than need to argue over money issues, couples can discuss the issues candidly. This will help to overcome obstacles related to shared finances. They can also make money together through joint ventures, such as investments.

Making Money Together

It is possible for the couple to make money together as well. One way that a couple can do this is not by working together in their place of employment. It is actually possible to generate revenue by investing in the stock market.

Investing in the stock market is a fun activity for a couple to collaborate on. You can learn a lot about which stocks are lucrative. You can even take a course in stock market investing in order to make it a more enjoyable experience for you and your partner.

How Do Women Flirt: 8 Flirting Signs From a Woman

In This Article

·         A prolonging and intense eye-contact

·         Hair-flip is a strong signal

·         Blushing, broad smiles, and laughs

·         Pretending to avoid

·         Attention seeking attempts

·         Mimicking your likes and dislikes

·         Touch during conversations

·         She acknowledges your social media posts

Women usually like being chased by men of their choice. It is a general perception that women like being approached, and that women love to make men come after them.

All the things stated above are surely true to a T. Though there is no full stop to it, the matter is not closed at this point. There are some closely connected facts concerning this subject.

Women often get mesmerized by men, and they try to let them know of it through flirting signs from a woman. When a woman is interested in any man, she doesn’t shy away from letting him see the truth of her heart with female signs of flirting.

Bad Relationships on Repeat? Break Your Unhealthy Patterns

Criticism.  Sarcasm.  Disrespect.  Repeat.

These are just some of the relationship behaviors that some when reoccurring can leave you wondering, “How did I get here again?”  The relationship may have even started great, you thought he/she was incredible, a nice person, a good match.  But when red flags started to wave you either ignored them or excused them away because you wanted this to be what you hoped it was.

The chemistry is incredible!  They are so doting and attentive!  They are the life of the party!

If you’ve cycled through a lot of painful relationships and this sounds familiar, take heart in knowing you are one of many who with great intentions and hopes of love and finding your person who end up entangled in unhealthy relationships and yet, stick around.  Hope is a powerful elixir and it’s often hard to see that the dream of what you thought they were is actually just that, a dream.

10 Ways to Cope with the Death of a Spouse

According to the American Psychological Association, 40-60% of married people in the United States will experience the death of a spouse during their lifetime. And, for those who do, the grieving process can be long and difficult.

The death of a spouse is often sudden and unexpected, leaving the surviving spouse feeling overwhelmed and alone. While there is no single way to cope with the death of a spouse, there are some strategies that may be helpful.

1. Allow yourself time to grieve

It is natural to feel a range of emotions after the death of a spouse, including sadness, grief, anger, and guilt. Give yourself time to mourn the loss, and don't be afraid to express your feelings. It may help to talk to someone who can understand what you are going through. You can also find support groups specifically for those who have lost a spouse.

5 Ways to Differentiate a Friend from a Moocher

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A friend and a moocher are two drastically different things. A friend is somebody who genuinely cares about you. A moocher is someone who “exploits the generosity of others” (“Moocher Definition & Meaning,” Merriam-Webster Dictionary, 2022). It is not uncommon for a moocher to easily slip into a friend group and try to present themselves as a “friend.” If you are wondering if your “friend” is a moocher, here are five ways to differentiate a true friend from someone abusing your kindness:

A Moocher Never Pays You Back

A definitive way to differentiate a friend from a moocher is if the individual never pays you back. While it is one thing if you treat a friend to a birthday meal or a surprise cup of coffee, it is completely different if a person is always insisting that you pay the bill and they never pay you back. Real friends allow you to treat them for special occasions, but they would not insist on it every time. 

How to become thoughtful gift giver – Tips

Giving gifts is a beautiful tradition that helps bond people. Choosing the right gift, worthy of its recipient, is an art that can be daunting for someone not skilled in giving gifts.

However, it should also show the effort that you put into thinking of it. Besides, a gift should be practical and not a random trinket you found in a gift shop. In order to check all these boxes and become a thoughtful gift-giver, you need excellent observation skills and some practice.

If you want to learn the art of becoming a thoughtful gift-giver, this guide is a great place to start.

Ways to Keep a Couple's Relationship Strong as They Build a Home

There is a desire to have a dream home in most people. However, this dream can quickly turn into a nightmare when the rubber meets the road. This is especially true for many couples who go through the process of building their home. To avoid breaking up or causing further trouble in a relationship, couples need to know how to keep it together. During these challenging times, here are some ways to keep things together when building a home:

Budget Together

A budget is something significant. It has a vital role to play while building a new house. A proper budget is necessary so that you can make your construction cost-effective. It will also help you save money while the building process is going on. 

Before starting the construction, it is essential to make a budget for that construction as a couple so that the expenses can be planned out accordingly. A house requires specific items such as wall light fixtures, windows, doors, and so on. Proper planning with the budget will enable you to build a new house on your finances. It is essential to start making a budget as a couple while building a house.

Dating For Disabled: 5 Biggest Misconceptions We Hear Almost Every Day

Back in the day, dating was much simpler and easier. Today, the case is completely different. Most people tend to overthink the obvious things and that makes it harder for them to enjoy their love life. Single people simply can't ignore the myths they hear about other dating niches and this can prevent them from having a fulfilling romantic life. Well, dating for disabled is not an exception. This particular part of the dating realm is riddled with unfair misconceptions and we're about to debunk the 5 biggest myths these people are dealing with on a daily basis.

"People With Disabilities Should Be Treated Differently"

This is definitely one of the most annoying myths about disabled dating out there. A lot of people think that differently-abled individuals require some kind of a special treatment and this is the biggest reason why these folks are not excited about revealing their disabilities. If you're about to go on a date with someone from this dating niche, make sure to treat your companion with nothing but respect. Avoid being condescending at all costs.

You have been my source of strength – Sanwo-Olu

To my delectable wife, Ibijoke. You have been my source of strength, my prayer partner, my happy place, my supporter, my cheerleader, the co-pilot in our home, and most importantly an exemplary mother to our children.

Lagos State Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu dropped the message on his official Instagram handle as he celebrates his dear wife on her birthday.

WHY DO PEOPLE FLIRT in a love relationship?

Why do people flirt? Did I hear you say “if we didn’t have women in the world there would not be s*x in the first place and the issue of “flirtation” would not arise?

So, blame the “female gender”? No! Blame the “man”? Don’t even think about it!

Sincerely, no one is in this world to live up to anyone’s expectations. But one thing lovers should understand is that “timing” is very important in s*x and so is “two-timing”. If you ain’t got the former you had better not mess with the latter.

What’s happening to my one big feminine family?

I’m a beautiful nubile girl and almost like taking everything after my grandma I believed it was time I had a place for someone special in my heart. Yea, you know what I mean.

So, I got married to this charming gentleman without the slightest doubt about doing the right thing. Suddenly, like magic we started having the pretty young ones of our own.

But when I later turned around to dekko at the world around me I immediately realized I had no sisters in it. Majority of those who should be my sisters naturally share my characteristics in every way except one thing for certain – they never have the slightest desire for marriage. So, what’s happening to my one big feminine family?