Making Peace with Mismatched Libidos in Relationships

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Intimacy on Different Frequencies: Making Peace with Mismatched Libidos in Relationships

While fairy tales often suggest that couples naturally “sync up” on everything, including sex, the reality is much more layered. Mismatched libidos are one of the most common intimacy struggles couples face. And though it can feel deeply personal, even threatening, to both partners, it doesn’t have to be a crisis.

In fact, this mismatch can be a catalyst for better understanding, renewed emotional intimacy, and lasting partnership if approached with openness, empathy, and creativity.

Understanding What Libido Actually Means

Libido isn’t just about how often someone wants sex. It’s shaped by emotional needs, lifestyle habits, psychological wiring, and physical health. For example:

• Spontaneous vs. Responsive desire: One partner might feel arousal out of the blue, while the other needs emotional or physical connection first.
• Attachment styles: Someone with an anxious attachment may interpret rejection as abandonment, while an avoidant type may shut down under pressure.

Wike Signs Pact To Develop City Walk Project

Abuja City Walk: A Bold Blueprint for Urban Transformation Inspired by Dubai

The Federal Capital Territory Administration (FCTA), led by Minister Nyesom Wike, has signed a landmark development agreement with MAG International Links Limited to build the Abuja City Walk, an ambitious urban project that draws inspiration from Dubai's famed City Walk. With its foundation scheduled for August 2025 and a milestone completion slated for May 2026, this initiative aims to redefine Abuja’s urban landscape and serve as a flagship of Nigeria’s commitment to global-class city development.

Echoes of Identity: A Deep Dive into Nigerian State Slogans

Echoes of Identity: A Deep Dive into Nigerian State Mottos, Their Origins, Meanings & Legacy

In Nigeria, mottos are more than slogans—they’re windows into history, mirrors of aspiration, and tools for unity and pride. From “Centre of Excellence” in Lagos to “Seat of the Caliphate” in Sokoto, every state slogan carries layers of culture, politics, and symbolism. This article explores the roots, evolution, and broader implications of these mottos across Nigeria's 36 states and the Federal Capital Territory (FCT).

Full List of Nigerian States and Their Mottos

Here’s a complete table mapping each state with its motto and capital:

PDP | 2025 NATIONAL CONVENTION | 2027 GENERAL ELECTIONS IN FOCUS

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PDP’s Road to Redemption Begins in Ibadan

As Nigeria heads toward the 2027 general elections, the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has marked its path forward with the announcement of its 2025 Elective National Convention, scheduled for November 15–16 in Ibadan, Oyo State. This isn't just another political gathering, it’s a pivotal moment in the PDP’s evolving journey to reclaim influence, reassert unity, and resurrect its stature as the country's leading opposition party.

At its 101st National Executive Committee (NEC) meeting in Abuja, the PDP leadership delivered a powerful message: the party is no longer mired in internal division. Through deliberate reconciliation, strategic planning, and a clear-eyed focus on rebuilding, it is now poised for renewal.

APC | Nentawe Goshwe Yilwatda Is new National Chairman

Nentawe Yilwatda: From Technocrat to APC National Chairman

In a sweeping move that signals both party realignment and a nod to technocratic leadership, the All Progressives Congress (APC) has appointed Professor Nentawe Goshwe Yilwatda as its new National Chairman. His emergence was ratified at the National Executive Committee meeting held at the Presidential Villa in Abuja, following the resignation of Abdullahi Umar Ganduje due to health concerns.

A Seamless Transition of Power

Professor Yilwatda’s nomination was proposed by Imo State Governor Hope Uzodimma and seconded by Speaker of the House of Representatives, Abass Tajudeen. With no dissenting voices, the process moved swiftly to his official swearing-in. His appointment sparked celebrations in Jos, Plateau State, highlighting both regional pride and political momentum.

PDP to hold National Convention in Ibadan, Nov 15 – 16

PDP Sets Stage for 2025 National Convention as Stakeholders Rally Behind Revival Agenda

The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has officially announced its 2025 Elective National Convention will be held on November 15–16 in Ibadan, Oyo State, signaling a major step in its efforts to reposition itself ahead of Nigeria’s 2027 general elections. The decision was reached during the party’s 101st National Executive Committee (NEC) meeting in Abuja, where party leaders and stakeholders pledged renewed unity, discipline, and momentum.

NSIB partners FRSC to enhance transportation safety

Towards Safer Roads: How the NSIB–FRSC Alliance Could Redefine Transportation Safety in Nigeria

In a major leap forward for public safety, the Nigerian Safety Investigation Bureau (NSIB) and the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) have forged a strategic partnership aimed at transforming Nigeria’s transport safety landscape. Sealed through a newly signed Memorandum of Understanding (MoU), this alliance stretches beyond conventional road-focused initiatives to include aviation, maritime, and rail sectors, delivering a more comprehensive safety framework for millions of Nigerians.

A New Era of Multimodal Safety

The MoU marks a shift toward smarter, evidence-based safety management. Under this collaboration:

·       Real-time Accident Response Protocols will be implemented across transport sectors, allowing emergency units to act swiftly through data-sharing and coordinated systems.

Governor Ortom’s Post-Office Journey and Nigeria’s Political Future

Samuel Ortom: Coalition Dreams, Benue’s Wounds, and the Road to 2027

In a candid interview on “Politics Today”, a Channels Television News and Current Affairs Programme, former Governor of Benue State, Samuel Ortom, opened up about his post-office engagements and shared his thoughts on the African Democratic Congress (ADC), one of Nigeria’s emerging opposition parties. His Excellency, Samuel Ortom’s message from the interview could be termed “sobering” yet strategic to Nigerians:

Life After Office: Otom’s Reinvention Beyond Politics

Since leaving office, Otom has embraced a quieter but purposeful role in advocacy, mentorship, and community engagement. He’s continued speaking out on issues affecting rural communities in Benue and beyond, especially those concerning security, agricultural development, and youth unemployment. His pivot away from traditional governance to grassroots activism underscores a deeper commitment to long-term impact outside the corridors of power.

“Service to the people doesn’t end with a title,” he said, highlighting that leadership is a lifelong responsibility.

Senator Natasha Returns To National Assembly, Denied Entry

Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan Denied Entry Despite Court Verdict

Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan’s attempt to return to the National Assembly on Tuesday, July 22, 2025, ended in frustration as security operatives denied her access to the premises. The senator from Kogi Central had pledged to resume sittings following a court ruling directing the Senate to recall her after a six-month suspension.

Here are the Key Actions:

• Arrival and Denial: Senator Natasha arrived at the National Assembly around noon but was stopped at the first gate by security personnel. After walking in with her supporters, including prominent activist Aisha Yesufu, she was again stopped at the second gate and found the entrance locked.
• Legal Grounds: Her suspension, which began on March 6, followed allegations of sexual harassment against Senate President Godswill Akpabio and claims she had breached Senate rules. The Federal High Court later deemed the suspension illegal and ordered her recall.

Adeleke’s Endorsement of Tinubu Sparks National Conversation

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Political Realignment in Osun: Adeleke’s Endorsement of Tinubu Sparks National Conversation

According to a recent report by channels television titled “Adeleke, Osun PDP Endorse Tinubu For Second Term”, Osun State Governor Ademola Adeleke and the state's chapter of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) have publicly endorsed President Bola Tinubu for a second term in 2027, despite Tinubu belonging to the rival All Progressives Congress (APC). Adeleke emphasized his continued loyalty to the PDP and affirmed that he’ll seek re-election in 2026 under its platform. The move follows months of speculation about Adeleke possibly defecting to APC, fueled by his meetings with Tinubu and high-profile party figures.

NIGERIA'S GARDEN OF EDEN | WHICH WAY FORWARD

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Nigeria’s Crossroads Moment: Rewrite the Constitution, Rebuild the Politics

As the year winds down, July 2025 will be remembered not only for the passing of a former president, but for the passing of an old political order. Nigeria stands at a rare moment of reckoning, grappling with a Constitution that no longer reflects its aspirations, and a political realignment sparked by the departure of a towering Northern figure.

As the National Assembly launches sweeping hearings on constitutional reform, and party lines blur in the post-Buhari landscape, one question looms above all others: Will Nigeria seize the chance to reset its democratic foundations, or squander it in pursuit of narrow interests?

The Power of AI Influencers | Beyond Your Imagination

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The Power of AI Influencers: Transforming Education, Activism, and Economies Worldwide

In an age where artificial intelligence (AI) is reshaping the fabric of society, a new class of change-makers is emerging: AI influencers. Whether they’re real people advocating for ethical AI or virtual personas promoting innovative solutions, these influencers are playing pivotal roles in education, activism, and political engagement, especially in developing nations like Nigeria.

Revolutionizing Education Through AI Influencers

AI influencers are breathing new life into traditional learning systems. In Nigeria, initiatives like the AI Scaling Hub, backed by the Gates Foundation, are championing personalized learning. In Benin City, students recently saw two years’ worth of learning gains in just six weeks through generative AI tutors.

Tech advocates like Adewale Yusuf of AltSchool Africa and Bayo Adekanmbi of Data Science Nigeria are using their platforms to demystify AI and push for its integration in classrooms. Youth-focused programs like UNICEF’s Generation Unlimited Nigeria aim to equip 20 million Nigerian youth with AI and digital skills by 2030, ensuring inclusivity with data-free access on Airtel networks.

FEEL MY PULSE | AT THIS TIME

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Nigeria Reacts: Voices from the Streets to the Screens

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As Nigeria’s news cycle churns with political appointments, celebrity drama, economic shifts, and security concerns, the public has not remained silent. From social media threads to official statements, reactions have poured in, revealing a nation deeply engaged, divided, and determined.

Political Moves & Appointments: “Recycling or Reform?”

The appointment of IBB’s son as Head of the Bank of Agriculture sparked mixed reactions. Critics on X (formerly Twitter) accused the government of “recycling the elite,” while others argued that legacy doesn’t always mean incompetence.

• Civil Society Network Against Corruption (CSNAC) released a statement urging transparency in the appointment process.
• A user @NaijaPolicyWatch tweeted: “We,  need fresh minds, not dynasties. This is not innovationit’s inheritance.”

Meanwhile, the public holiday declared to honor Buhari drew both reverence and resistance.

• The Nigerian Labour Congress (NLC) questioned the economic impact of another public holiday.
• @lolaloveandart posted: “The VAPP Act protects victims. Buhari’s legacy includes ignoring it. Why honor that?”

SEB BLOG NOTES | AT THIS TIME

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Nigeria Today: From Politics to Pop Culture, Headlines with Depth

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Across Nigeria’s digital news landscape, today's headlines reflect a nation caught between turbulence and transformation. From presidential appointments to Nollywood reunions, here's a curated breakdown of key stories, and the perspectives that help decode them.

Political Underpinnings: Appointments, Defections & National Narratives

The political pulse remains high as President Bola Tinubu appoints the son of former military ruler Ibrahim Babangida as the new head of the Bank of Agriculture. While supporters hail it as a nod to expertise and legacy, critics question the recycling of political elites.

Meanwhile, two senators recently defected from the PDP, mere months after endorsing Tinubu's second term. The timing hints at shifting allegiances ahead of the 2027 elections, reinforcing power dynamics in Nigeria’s political theater.

In an unexpected gesture, the Federal Government declared July 15 as a public holiday to honor late President Muhammadu Buhari, who passed away at 82. While some view it as a commemorative act, others see it as an attempt to cement historical legacy.

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The Pulse of Social Media: Nigeria & Global Trends at this Time

From political twists in Abuja to viral dance moves sweeping Johannesburg and Jakarta, social media continues to shape conversations and culture. This month, platforms like Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and X (formerly Twitter) are serving up a mix of protest, pride, memes, and AI-powered creativity. Here’s a deep dive into what’s trending now, and why it matters.

Nigeria: Activism, Afrobeat & Social Buzz

Pop Culture and Viral Moments

Nigerian youth are rewriting the rules of digital engagement, with trending phrases like “No Gree For Anybody” asserting a bold self-assured attitude across TikTok and X. Dance challenges like Shallipopi’s Pluto Moves have turned streets, churches, and weddings into mini performance stages, while the nostalgic Koroba hairstyle has made a fashion comeback among Gen Z influencers.

International content creators are picking up local phrases too. Kai Cenat’s infamous shout , “Just give me my money!”, has become a meme anthem across Nigeria’s TikTok. Meanwhile, Afrobeats superstar Davido finds his 2015 hit Dodo revived by a new wave of content creators vibing to the track.

TOWARDS 2027 | AT THIS TIME

 

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Navigating Nigeria’s Road to 2027: Strategic Programs and Emerging Political Shifts

As Nigeria approaches its 2027 general elections, a wave of strategic planning, civic engagement, and political repositioning is reshaping the democratic space. Stakeholders ranging from electoral institutions to civil society groups are laying the groundwork for a more transparent and inclusive process. Here’s an expanded look at key developments and initiatives gaining traction across the country.

Strengthening Electoral Institutions: INEC’s Early Moves

The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) is already steering the preparatory ship well ahead of schedule, with robust internal mechanisms being activated:

·       Election Project Plan Committee (EPPC): This newly inaugurated body is crafting a comprehensive electoral blueprint to guide logistics, technology integration, and stakeholder coordination for 2027.

·       Strategic Timelines: INEC is prioritizing the early release of planning documents to avoid last-minute implementation gaps, drawing lessons from the 2023 electoral cycle.

·       Stakeholder Consultation Framework: A new emphasis is being placed on collaborative engagement with political parties, civil society, and security agencies to foster inclusivity and conflict prevention.

Goodluck Jonathan, Appointed UN Global Crisis Envoy

Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, Fmr. Nigeria's President

From Bayelsa to the UN: Goodluck Jonathan’s Appointment Signals Africa’s Diplomatic Leap

In an unprecedented diplomatic development, Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, former President of Nigeria, has been appointed as the United Nations Global Crisis Envoy. The position, jointly endorsed by global powers, the United States, United Kingdom, France, China, and Russia, marks a turning point in African representation on the world stage.

Jonathan becomes the first African former Head of State to assume such a high-level role in global crisis mediation, a position akin to the one previously held by former UK Prime Minister Tony Blair in the Middle East.

'Influencer' who garnered 165k followers while 'enjoying Wimbledon' is revealed as an AI creation

The posts on Mia Zelu's Instagram page were so carefully curated that they hoodwinked more than 40,000 people into liking the pictures

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When AI Influencers Fool the Crowd: The Rise and Ethics of Digital Fame

In July 2025, the internet buzzed over a striking Instagram personality named Mia Zelu, who shared glamorous snapshots of herself enjoying the Wimbledon tennis tournament. With 165,000 followers and captivating captions like “Still not over the event... but the party’s a whole other game,” she appeared to be the perfect blend of style, charm, and social media savvy.

MORNING BRIEFING | 210725

Morning Briefing | Monday, July 21, 2025, ||| your curated snapshot of Nigeria and the world in socio-economic, political, entertainment, and sporting affairs

Nigeria: Socio-Economic Pulse

• Economic Growth Outlook Brightens Nigeria’s GDP is projected to grow by 3.6% in 2025, buoyed by increased fuel output from the Dangote refinery, which is now producing beyond domestic demand. This shift positions Nigeria as a net fuel exporter for the first time, easing inflation and strengthening the naira.
• Investment Drive Intensifies Billionaire Aliko Dangote has urged wealthy Nigerians to invest locally, citing the refinery’s success as a model for transformative development. The Federal Government echoes this optimism, crediting reforms under President Tinubu for stabilizing the economy.

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Editorial Commentary: Voices in the Current

As Nigeria and the world navigate a constellation of transformations, from climate anxieties and political recalibrations to tech upheavals and cultural renaissance, individuals, organizations, and movements are responding in ways that reflect both hope and skepticism. Their reactions aren't just noise in the system; they’re shaping the narrative itself.

Nigeria: Mourning, Music, and Meaning

The death of former President Muhammadu Buhari has elicited contrasting sentiments. Foreign dignitaries and African statesmen honored his leadership as steadfast and visionary, with tributes flowing from across continents. Yet domestically, the renaming of UNIMAID after him stirred backlash. Students and alumni argued it tarnishes the institution’s legacy, pointing to educational policies that frustrated academia during his tenure. For many Nigerians, this moment is less about national reverence and more about political memory.

EDUCATION AND CULTRE | AN EMBRACE FOR A BRIGHTER TOMORROW

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Reimagining the Future: How Educational and Cultural Innovation Is Empowering Youth and Reshaping Creative Economies

From bustling tech hubs in Lagos to immersive art festivals in Delhi, the convergence of educational innovation and cultural creativity is sparking a global movement, one that is empowering young people, expanding digital access, and redefining how economies grow through art, learning, and design.

Innovation in Education: From Classrooms to Catalysts

Global Forums on Learning Transformation

July 2025 saw a series of influential conferences reshaping global education:

• At ICOIE 2025 in Hong Kong, educators championed open and flexible learning models, powered by AI, gamification, and inclusive pedagogies.
• The ITECONFERENCE 2025 in London invited global experts to reimagine curricula—highlighting digital equity, early childhood innovation, and machine-learning-assisted instruction.
• In Las Vegas, the Innovative Schools Summit addressed the urgent need to rebuild student engagement post-pandemic, with tools for resilience and behavior transformation.

NIGERIA’S NATIONAL CONSTITUTION SUMMIT – 2025 | HOW MUCH DO YOU KNOW ?

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NIGERIA’S NATIONAL CONSTITUTION SUMMIT – 2025 | WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW

The National Constitutional Summit held in Abuja from July 15–17, 2025, was a landmark event aimed at reshaping Nigeria’s democratic future. Convened by The Patriots, a coalition of elder statesmen and civic leaders led by Chief Emeka Anyaoku, the summit brought together over 700 delegates from across the country and the diaspora.

Key Objectives

• Replace the 1999 Constitution with a new, people-driven charter
• Restore true federalism and decentralize governance
• Create a Constituent Assembly through non-partisan elections
• Draft a new constitution to be ratified via national referendum

Major Reform Proposals

• Governance Structure
• Shift from the expensive presidential system to a more accountable model
• Restructure Nigeria into autonomous regions with genuine federal powers
• Streamline the legislature to reduce cost and improve efficiency

NEWSROUNDUP | 190725

The Global Pulse: Nigeria’s Momentum and the Triple Helix Shaping Our Future

As the world spins through turbulent headlines and digital revolutions, Nigeria holds its own amid shifting global tides. From art to athletics, from power plays to political pivots, this is a panoramic view of what’s shaping the moment, locally and globally.

Nigeria: Talent, Tensions & Transformation

Political Realignments and Rising Voices

• Obasanjo’s Call for National Unity Former President Olusegun Obasanjo decried Nigeria’s current trajectory, asserting that insecurity and hardship reveal a country in bondage. He emphasized the need for a leader who transcends tribal lines.
• NNPP Courts Obasanjo Ahead of 2027 Seeking strategic guidance, NNPP leaders met Obasanjo to foster unity and political vision for the upcoming elections.
• Push for Electoral Reform With Atiku’s recent party switch, PDP and ADC leaders are rallying for coalitions and reforms to challenge APC dominance.

2025 NATIONAL CONSTITUTION SUMMIT | A NECESSITY OF YESTERDAY

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 Nigeria’s 2025 National Constitutional Summit: A Bold Step Toward Democratic Renewal

Held from July 15–17, 2025, in Abuja, the National Constitutional Summit marked a historic turning point in Nigeria’s democratic evolution. Spearheaded by The Patriots, a coalition of elder statesmen, legal experts, and civic leaders, this summit aimed to rewrite Nigeria’s governance blueprint by replacing the widely criticized 1999 Constitution with a truly people-driven charter.

Over 700 delegates from across Nigeria and its diaspora gathered with one common purpose: to set the stage for a reimagined federal structure, inclusive democracy, and accountable leadership.

ABUJA IN THE LAST ONE WEEK | POLITICS, URBAN DEVELOPMENTS & MORE

Abuja in Focus: Coalition Politics, Urban Renewal, and the Capital's Rising Voice

Abuja, Nigeria As the political heartbeat of Nigeria, Abuja never sleeps, and this past week was no exception. From strategic opposition alliances to sweeping economic conversations, the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) played host to a series of developments that echo far beyond its skyline.

Power Plays and Political Reconfigurations

The nation’s capital saw a convergence of heavyweights, Atiku Abubakar, Peter Obi, Nasir El-Rufai, and Rotimi Amaechi, in a meeting that many are calling the start of an “opposition renaissance.” With whispers of a united front to challenge the ruling APC in the 2027 elections, analysts say this “coalition of veterans” could redefine Nigeria’s political map.