How do you know you're truly in a happy relationship? Difficult question, wouldn't you say? Well, follow this report to the end and there you would know if your current love relationship has passed the litmus test.
A strong and healthy relationship is built and founded on Communication, Compromise and Commitment. Although sometimes these three C's can rather be Intimacy, Passion and Commitment. Yet both Intimacy and Passion breed Communication and Compromise. I rather go for the first three C's, if you asked me.
Moreover, every love relationship goes through five different dating stages which are Attraction, Dating, Disappointment, Stability and Commitment which is regarded as the final pay-off , a moment when it's certain if you and and your partner are destined for a lifetime union.
However, above all these postulations there are very easy ways that you can access to know if you're in a happy relationship:
SADNESS AND TEARS
Sharing in both sadness and tears as a couple is a positive pointer that your relationship is a happy one. No pretenses, that is.
INTIMACY
It's a research fact that couples who indulge in sex once a week have stronger bond for each other and as such consider love making as a sacred ritual that should be respected even between couples.
FIGHTS AND QUARRELS
In every love relationship there's bound to be a fight or quarrel at sometimes. But the fight and quarrel which is sandwiched with regards and respect and leads to productivity in the relationship is considered a sign of a happy relationship.
SOCIAL MEDIA POSTS
Contrary to opinions of many that posting sweet and romantic words or messages about your spouse on social media is a sign of a happy relationship, research has it that the best of very true and long lasting happy relationships do not have such romantic exchange of literary feelings on social media because they rather cherish to respect and preserve their privacy.
LONG PAST RELATIONSHIPS
Couples who have experienced long past relationship have a better understanding and know how to sustain a current love relationship.
CONTENTMENT
A love relationship where the couples are content with what they have and who they are is considered a happy relationship. Many relationships have fallen apart because of lack of contentment by nature.
SPENDING TIME TOGETHER
In a happy relationship couples love spending their time together perhaps, to watch a television series, visit the cinemas, gym, etc.
HAPPINESS and LAUGHTER
As a happy couple you would from your heart of hearts share together happiness and laughter naturally.
COMPLIMENTS
Complimenting each other in a love relationship is a very good sign of a happy union.
THE THREE C's
Every happy relationship must have the the three C's of Communication, Compromise and Commitment
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